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Five wedding-planning pitfalls to avoid

Congratulations – if you’re planning your big day you’re in for an exciting few months (or years). When John and I got engaged, I made some really basic mistakes that, in all…


April 2014

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How to host your first dinner party

This weekend, John and I did something terribly grown up and hosted our first proper dinner party. We’ve had parties before, and we’ve had people for dinner before, but we’ve never had…


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Past brides and grooms confess: my pre-wedding tantrums

I have yet another confession, readers, although quite honestly, if you’ve been reading this blog since its Under the Vintage Veil days you probably already know this but are too polite to…


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Party at the Parlour – captured and recapped!

Everyone knows that journos work bloomin’ hard – and nobody knows that better than me! Between the blog and my freelance commitments, it can be hard to find time for a good…


February 2014

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How to stay calm on your wedding morning

I’m the first to admit that I can be a bit of a worrier. I try not to sweat the small stuff, but I can totally understand how planning a wedding can…


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Valentine’s Day date ideas for engaged couples

It’s easy to focus so much of your time, effort and cash on your wedding day that the run up can be a bit of a romance and money-free zone. If you’re…


January 2014




December 2013


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What to do if your friends can’t make it to your wedding

So you’ve sent out your invitations and you’re excitedly awaiting your RSVPs. But instead of those thick envelopes arriving en masse, letting you know your nearest and dearest will be there for…



November 2013

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Top 10 tips for buying authentic vintage clothing and wedding wear

Happy wedding Wednesday everyone (I can’t believe it’s already Wednesday!) Today we’ve brought over another long-standing friend’o'blog, Elizabeth Paton of vintage millinary and accessories supplier, Madame B’s Boutique . We go way…


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Our family celebration chocolate buttercream sponge cake

I’ve chosen this week to share a recipe that’s very close to my heart. Monday would have been my dad’s 60th birthday, and if he were here he would be dropping big…


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Nancy and Bolly’s revamped floral factfile – romantic roses

Good morning everyone and happy wedding Wednesday. Today’s post marks the return of one of our fabulous columnists from our Under the Vintage Veil days for a revamped instalment of the classic…




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August 2013



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Vanessa and Phil’s colour-popping fabulously floral wedding

Good morning all. Today on the blog I’m really happy to showcase Vanessa and Phil’s elegant and floral vintage-inspired Canadian wedding. Shot by Just For You Photography , we fell in love…


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A grand and elegant Florida wedding

Good morning all, today I’m really happy to share Catrece & Bob’s Florida antique-themed wedding with you. Shot by Andi Diamond Photography , this wedding is truly unique with details and decor…







July 2013


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Fabulous news about Over the Vintage Threshold

Good morning campers, I have to say I’m all abuzz this morning because I’ve been sitting on some rather exciting news! As many of you know, we’re launching a fabulous new vintage-inspired…


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Five fabulous favours your guests will appreciate

I often get asked about my stance on wedding favours. Many brides are opting to forgo them altogether, finding the prospect of spending their precious budget on something guests might not even…



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Five ways to make sure your wedding starts on time

When it comes to timeliness, I must confess that I do tend to channel Monica from Friends. I hate being late, I hate other people being late to meet me and I…


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Mighty Fine Entertainment’s Top 20 Vintage Wedding Songs

One of my most frequently asked music questions as a vintage wedding blogger is “how do I choose vintage-inspired music that will fit my theme but still get people out of their…









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An exclusive reader offer from Gioia Mia

We’ve got a real treat on Under the Vintage Veil today – an exclusive 3-for-2 offer from Gioia Mia handmade jewellery and accessories . The offer applies to everything from their ‘Semplice’…


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Under the Vintage Veil’s weekly bulletin

Happy Sunday everyone! First of all I’d like to apologise again for the lack of beauty post this week. They are filmed and will resume this week but we’ve had yet another…


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A flirty, fifties colour-popping whimsical wedding shoot

It’s finally Friday and set to be a scorcher this weekend. With that in mind, we thought we’d leave you with something equally scorching to start you off. Today’s beautiful shoot at…




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A Jenny Packham gown and a windswept beach in Scotland

Happy Monday folks. Today on the blog we have a very special bride (I adore her attitude, just read her moving write up) with one of the most beautiful dresses we’ve ever…


June 2013

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Under the Vintage Veil’s weekly bulletin

Happy Saturday everyone. And on Saturday, they rested! Here are some of our highlights from Under the Vintage Veil and around the wedding world and beyond this week! We hope you enjoy……


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The Beauty Spot Q&A with Chloe McCall MUA

Happy Tuesday folks. Today on the blog we have a very special treat – our very own beauty expert, make-up artist, Chloe McCall on hand to answer reader letters. Chloe is an…


May 2013


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Businesses that blog: how to get started

This post is by special request. I write a lot of business posts (don’t worry, brides, the rest of the week is all weddings so please do check back) and have had…



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A dramatic, modern bridal twist on Victorian theatre

Happy Friday everyone. Today we have the great pleasure of featuring photography by Rebecca Douglas . This theatrical shoot draws inspiration from different historical sources, and I thought it was really original,…


February 2013

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Vintage real bride Nicole – with 8 weeks to go

Today we have a fabulous double bill of our real bride, Nicole, on the blog owing to a two week absence on our part! Nicole is a 33 year old bride from…


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Welcome Emily’s Best to Under the Vintage Veil

We’re excited to welcome the very “sweet” Emily’s Best to Under the Vintage Veil! Emily’s Best are a wonderful travelling pop-up traditional sweet shop, supplying real traditional British sweets in an old-fashioned…



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To my father.

My dear friends, I’m so very sorry for my prolonged absence. Under the Vintage Veil will resume normal business at the beginning of next week. I’m also so sorry to those who…


January 2013


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Running a business: when everything else is falling apart

Life is thoroughly unpredictable. Until August 2012 I was on top of the world. I’d just settled into my own pattern of running a business, with a strict schedule, methods and a…


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A warm welcome to the Vintage Chic Wedding Fair

We’re delighted to welcome the Vintage Chic Wedding Fair to Under the Vintage Veil. Described as “vintage with a modern twist, and a fun an relaxing vibe” the Vintage Chic Wedding Fair…


November 2012

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Something to Brighten your day… Spring Pantone 2013 Colours

Today we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at Greyed Jade inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some sunshine to your day! If…


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For the love of music

It is one of those many arguments that can make or break a dance floor on the night of your wedding: What do people like to dance to? Should you play the…


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Scrumptious Heart Cookies

Everyone loves cookies and sometimes we even give our guests cookies at our weddings for favours. My favourite past time (when not watching rubbish on TV) is to bake for my husband.…


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Spring Colour 2013 by Meryl Part 6 – Sweet Nectarine

Today we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at Nectarine inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some sunshine to your day! If you…


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Under the Vintage Veil welcomes Hairlooms Headpieces

We’re excited to welcome Hairlooms Headpieces to the blog! Hairlooms Headpieces make gorgeous one of a kind bridal headpieces using refashioned vintage jewellery. Proprietor Kristen says: ” Hairlooms Headpieces are not just…


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Spring 2013 Colours by Meryl – Part 5 African Violet

Today we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at African Violet inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some sunshine to your day! If…



· by Sara - Darling Lovely Life editor

Spring 2013 Colours with Meryl Part 4 – Linen Love

Today we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at some Linen inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some sunshine to your day! Linen…


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A warm welcome to Wedique

Under the Vintage Veil is excited to welcome online wedding accessory boutique Wedique to the blog! All of their products are handmade from scratch from the highest quality materials, making their quality…


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Spring 2013 Colours with Meryl Part 3- Poppy Red

Every day for ten days we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at some Poppy Red inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some…


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A 1930s-inspired chic affair

Morning lovelies. Today I have one heck of a treat for you, if I do say so myself. This gorgeous bride is Alex Mannion of ‘ Pigeon and Quill ‘ wedding paper…


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Spring 2013 colours with Meryl part 2 – Lemon Zest

Every day for ten days we’re bringing you Meryl’s take on Pantone’s Spring 2013 colours . Today Meryl looks at some Lemon Zest inspiration. We hope you enjoy and it brings some…


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Crisis, opportunity and your wedding

According to my hero, Lisa Simpson (yes, really) the Chinese language uses the same word for “crisis” as it does for “opportunity” (actually, different word, same symbol apparently but anyway). It got…


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Meaning your vows (in front of an audience)

I have a confession to make. In the run-up to my wedding, the thing I was the most nervous about (out of everything – which is saying something) was the idea of…



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Sunny yellow rustic chic wedding inspiration – a styled shoot

When Claire Graham (a fabby photographer of Claire Graham Photography fame, for those who don’t know yet) approached me with this shoot, I was so excited. Partly because it’s bright colours and…


October 2012


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How to style a vintage-inspired Halloween wedding

I’ve never been a fan of fancy dress weddings. There’s something about getting married in witches hats or covered in fake blood that feels like it undermines the whole process. So when…


September 2012

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An Indian and vintage-inspired real wedding – Maddy & Simon

Hardcore Under the Vintage Veil readers may remember that several months ago Maddy and Simon won their wedding photography with Cassandra Lane Photography right here on the blog. We’ve been on quite…


August 2012

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The Calm before the Storm

Good morning , I hope you have all had a wonderful weekend. Today I am really happy to share with you a wonderful post by one of our readers and real brides,…


June 2012



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The final countdown – reducing your wedding stress

So it’s around a month and a half to go until my wedding day – and I don’t know about the rest of you lovely people with imminent weddings but I’ll be…


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The Big Debate – is it OK to leave a wedding early?

Rawr – it’s Bridezilla Sara here again! Today I’ll be courting controversy again and stating in no uncertain terms that it’s never OK to leave a wedding early. OK, if you’re seriously…


May 2012

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A fresh and floral spring US Real Wedding

Morning everyone! I was so happy when Carolyn Scott Photography sent me Abby and Stephen’s vintage-inspired wedding all the way from Raleigh, NC in the USA. I think Carolyn did an incredible…



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An artistic Brighton love shoot

OK – you caught me! I can’t resist a Brighton backdrop! But these photos are so beautifully artistic I’m sure I wouldn’t have been able to say no anyway! Check out the…



April 2012

· by Sara - Darling Lovely Life editor

Everything you need to know about wedding speeches

Happy Sunday everyone. The closer it gets to your wedding day, the more Sunday’s you’re probably spending frantically planning last-minute details. I’ve written about who should get to make speeches before but…



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An Alice in Wonderland real wedding

Morning everyone – I’ve added a little disclaimer, UTVV HQ has been struck by a terrible stomach bug *sob* so I may be slower in responding to comments, tweets and emails than…


January 2012

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Pretty in powder blue – Inspiration board

It’s nearly the weekend – and while lots of you are probably gearing up for a big one, I’m feeling the chilled vibe today. So my scheduled post went out the window…


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Marriage and illness – when those vows mean everything

A while ago I told you all about my long-standing battle with depression . It was a scary, painful but wonderfully cathartic thing to do and I was overwhelmed by the wonderful,…


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The big debate: Sex before marriage

Let’s face it, sex is no longer personal. It’s sort of taken for granted that, while the bride may be wearing white, she’s not particularly nervous about her wedding night. But there…


December 2011

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A very glamorous vintage inspiration shoot

Who’s up for some classic vintage inspiration? I’ll hand over to the very lovely Sylvia from Paul Nelson Images (who shot these beautiful pictures) to tell you all about this gorgeous shoot!…


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DIY: Make your own fabric and lace jars

Ah the simple jar – you’ve come under a bit of fire recently! People say you’re overdone, that your day has passed! Well, my little glass friend, I have to say I…


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And the winning couple is…

Thank you so much to everyone who entered and voted in the engagement shoot competition. Five lovely couples battled it out but in the end only one could win the engagement shoot…


June 2011

· by Sara - Darling Lovely Life editor

Wedding tools #1 – Top Table Planner

This week I’ll be writing about some of the tools that have made my life easier while planning my wedding! The first is Top Table Planner . For just £10 for six…


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How to set a budget (and stick to it)

The first thing to do when you’re setting your budget is to be realistic about it. This blog post assumes you’re paying for at least some of your wedding, but if you’re…


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Vintage finds #4 – andallthingsnice.net

Online decorations shop, http://www.andallthingsnice.net has been getting some great coverage in wedding magazines lately. So I logged on to the site to see what all the fuss was about – and I…


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Vintage finds #3 – Rock n Rose

Today’s vintage finds come from Rock n Rose ! Some seriously quirky accessories for the unconventional bride. There’s a huge selection, but my favourites are as follows: Something blue Key themes are…


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Vintage finds #2 – Abigail’s Vintage Bridal

My favourite vintage find today is this seriously incredible wedding dress website! Based in the East Midlands, Abigail’s Vintage Bridal has a selection of dresses online and you can try them on…


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Vintage finds #1 – Flo & Percy

Every day this week I’ll be choosing my favourite vintage bridalwear find of the day. Today’s winner is Flo & Percy - the champions of pretty retro headgear for your wedding. All…


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Choosing your guest list – who are your real friends?

Before I got engaged, I didn’t quite realise or appreciate the way in which getting married forces you to re-evaluate your friendships. I had always assumed that friends I hadn’t seen for…


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A shabby chic wedding on a budget – top 10 ways to save money

The venue. There are many cheap and cheerful venues that can still look effortlessly chic given the right finishing touches. For example, don’t rule out your local village hall. For a nominal…


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How to pick your venue – the top 10 must-ask questions

Although it sounds simple enough, there are about a million factors to consider in choosing your venue. I’ll try to cover just ten of the crucial questions you need to ask before…